In Her Own Words
About Her
Ek issie soos dai girls wat die troue najaag nie ek wil meer hê, ek soek 'n lewensmaat...een om die harde klippe mee te kou. Ek soek iemand op wie ek kan skree en wie my dan oor sy skouer sal gooi en my kamer toe dra, op die bed neergooi en my kielie tot ek amper my broek nat piepie.... ek soek iemand wat nie kan wag om in die middae by die huis te kom nie, nie omdat hulle my noodwending wil sien nie maar net omdat ons huis 'n veilige hawe vir hulle is en hulle veilig daar voel en ek's toevallig ook daar en.... tapas .... ek soek iemand wat hou van tapas omdat ons hou van variasie en nie net een ding op die menu wil bestel nie .... ek soek iemand wat 'n honderd keer my nat handdoek van die badkamer vloer af sal optel en met my sal raas omdat ek dit elke bleddie dag doen, ek soek iemand - my iemand ....
"DISCLOSURE": Ek is al vir 'n meer as (I actually have lost count) days/weeks/months/years 'separated', die formele proses vat net effens langer as verwag, buiten vir die 'sign the dotted line' het ek nie onnodige bagasie nie net 'n baie deurmekaar tas!
About Her Ideal Match
Jy moet lief wees vir die lewe, avontuurlustig en gemaklik wees met 'spur of the moment' uitstappies. Jy kan maar 'n "couch potato" wees, maar nie elke dag nie. Jy moet kan en hou van dans (en ook kamp) en nie allergies wees vir water of die son nie.
As jy eerder op 'n *gereelde* basis *alleen* saam met jou vriende as saam met my wil wees, hou asseblief verby. As jou foon in jou hand vasgegom is, hou asseblief verby.
As geld jou eerste liefde is, hou asseblief verby en as jy eers jou ma as my moet raadpleeg voor jy besluite neem, hou ook asseblief verby. As jy nie sonder elektrisiteit kan klaarkom vir 'n week weg iewers in die bos nie, issues het met stof of sand tussen jou tone en worry of jou bakkie gaan krapmerke kry as jy 4x4 "you guessed it" - hou asseblief verby.
Don't be a 'box' wees net 'n lekker mens.
Maar, alle grappies op 'n stokkie - Ek soek 'n Godvresende man, iemand met morele en waardes wat respek het vir homself, vir my en vir ander. Iemand lojaal, opreg en eerlik. Iemand wat my kan 'challenge' en soms op my plek kan sit. Iemand wat nie materialisties ingestel is nie en 'n goeie tyd kan geniet en saam met my kan lag en die lekker wat die lewe bied kan geniet. Iemand wat weet wie en wat hy is en gemaklik is met homself.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Northern Suburbs (and a little small holding in the Northern Cape...), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
43 | |
Star Sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
163cm (5' 4.2") | |
Body Type: |
Ask me later | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Trying to Quit | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Technical Diploma | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Solvent |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
34 - 48 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
174cm (5' 8.5") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Black; Greying | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long; Straight; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; Navel ring; More piercings; A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Intelligent; Mild; Moody; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outrageous; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Shy; Silly; Stable; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Outdoorsy (I'm usually dressed for the bush) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Other |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; New Age; Pop / Top 40 |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Non-fiction; Religious; Romance; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Game shows; Motoring; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Reality shows; Soap operas; Sport; Talk shows; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Cooking; Healthy living; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Writing books; Yoga |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Archery; Athletics; Baseball; Basketball; Bodyboarding; Bowling; Boxing; Bungee jumping; Camping; Canoeing; Cricket; Cycling; Dancesport; Darts; Extreme sports; Field Hockey; Gymnastics; Hang- / Paragliding; Hiking; Horse Riding; Hunting; Ice Hockey; Ice Skating; Inline / Roller skating; Kitesurfing; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Pool; Rock climbing; Rowing; Rugby; Running; Scuba diving; Shooting; Sky diving; Surf skiing/kayaking; Surfing; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Volleyball; Walking; Water skiing; Weight training; White water rafting; Windsurfing |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I'm an only child |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Erotica; Long hair |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Backpacking around the globe |
Feelings about using Chat 24: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |